Nourishing Your Toddler: Breakfast Ideas, Snacks, and Picky Eating
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By Leah Hackney, RD, LD, CSP @kids.nutritionist
As a parent, ensuring your toddler is getting the right nutrition can sometimes feel like a challenge, especially when dealing with busy mornings, picky eating, or the pressures of balancing meals. The good news? You’re not alone, and with a few practical strategies, you can nourish your toddler and help them develop a healthy relationship with food that will last a lifetime.
This guide will cover everything from relevant nutritional needs, healthy breakfast ideas, and mindful snacking, to overcoming picky eating and managing a vegetarian diet for toddlers. We’ll also look at how to foster positive eating habits, focusing on keeping things stress-free and enjoyable.
As babies transition into toddlerhood (ages 1-3), their nutrition needs change significantly. During the first year, babies rely primarily on breastmilk or formula, which provides the bulk of their calories and nutrients. But by 12 to 24 months, toddlers need a broader range of foods to meet their growing needs for energy, vitamins, and minerals.
For toddlers aged 1-3, the general macronutrient percentage breakdown recommended by experts is as follows:
Some of the top nutrients of concern include iron, calcium, vitamin D, and healthy fats. Iron is crucial for cognitive development and energy levels, and a deficiency can lead to anemia. Foods like lean meats, beans, and fortified cereals are excellent sources. Calcium and vitamin D are essential for healthy bone development, with dairy products, fortified plant milk, and sunlight exposure being good sources. Healthy fats, found in avocados, nut butter, and fatty fish, are vital for brain development and overall growth.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and the World Health Organization (WHO) recommend avoiding added sugars entirely for children under the age of two. After age two, it’s recommended that children limit their intake of added sugars to less than 25 grams (or about 6 teaspoons) per day (Vos et al., 2017).
When planning breakfast or snacks, it’s important to check labels for hidden sources of sugar, such as corn syrup or maltodextrin, and to rely on natural sweetness from fruits instead. Little Bellies snacks are a great option because none of them have added refined sugars; instead, they are sweetened with fruit and vegetable powders or fruit juice, making them a perfect choice for mindful parents.
The key is to aim for balanced meals that include a mix of protein, healthy fats, fiber, and produce (fruits or vegetables).
When it comes to preparing breakfast for daycare or travel, convenience is key, but so is nutrition. Here are some portable, nutrient-dense options:
Many toddlers go through phases of picky eating, but early exposure to a wide variety of foods can help reduce food fussiness. Research shows that repeated exposure to new foods—without pressure—can encourage acceptance over time (Birch et al., 1998). It can often take more than 10+ times of exposure! Offering different textures, colours, and flavours regularly can also support microbiome diversity, which is linked to better immune function. We recommend at least offering very small portions of a non-preferred food on the plate. Even if they don’t eat it, it at least helps them get used to tolerating it, then eventually touching and exploring, which can lead to eating down the road!
It’s also important to understand that appetite fluctuations in toddlers are completely normal. Around age two, toddlers begin to assert their independence and their interest in food can wane as part of normal growth and development. Studies show that toddlers’ appetites can naturally vary from day to day, and this is not usually a cause for concern (Carruth et al., 2004). Respecting your toddler’s hunger cues and allowing them to choose how much to eat can help foster a healthy relationship with food.
Some other picky eating tips are:
More on the fixation with white foods and picky eating here.
If you’ve chosen a vegetarian diet for your toddler, it’s important to ensure they get enough protein, iron, calcium, vitamin B12, and omega-3s. Plant-based sources like beans, lentils, tofu, and fortified cereals can provide essential nutrients for growing toddlers.
Helping your child build a positive relationship with food is just as important as the food itself. Create a relaxed mealtime atmosphere, offer a variety of foods without pressure, and allow your toddler to listen to their hunger and fullness cues. Sometimes they eat more or less at each meal but it tends to balance out nutritionally! By fostering a stress-free environment, you’ll help your child develop healthy, lifelong eating habits.
Common questions: Is it bad to skip breakfast and have a snack instead?
Toddlers have small stomachs and typically need to eat every few hours so it’s not recommended to entirely skip breakfast. However, if your little one is not a “big” breakfast eater, you can always add a mid-morning snack and try to boost the nutrition there!
Nutritious Snacks as “Mini Meals”
Snacks for toddlers can be lighter than main meals but should still be nutrient-dense and provide essential nutrition between meals. I like to think of snacks as “mini meals,” where each snack includes a combination of protein, healthy fats, and produce (fruit or vegetables). This approach ensures your toddler is getting well-rounded nutrition even from smaller bites.
Offering balanced snacks helps maintain energy levels, supports growth, and keeps toddlers satisfied until their next meal. Instead of thinking of snacks as “fillers,” consider them opportunities to nourish your child.
Feeding a toddler doesn’t have to be stressful. By offering a variety of nutrient-rich meals and snacks, and embracing flexibility with new foods, you’re setting the stage for your child’s healthy growth and development.
Written by Leah Hackney @kids.nutritionist and COO of @BlwMealsApp and @KidsMealsApp. Leah is a Pediatric Dietitian with over 10 years of experience in both the US and Canada and helps families with starting solids and picky eating.
References
Birch, L. L., McPhee, L., Shoba, B. C., Pirok, E., & Steinberg, L. (1998). What kind of exposure reduces children’s food neophobia? Looking vs. tasting. Appetite, 30(2), 229-240. https://doi.org/10.1006/appe.1997.0134
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Carruth, B. R., Ziegler, P. J., Gordon, A., & Barr, S. I. (2004). Prevalence of picky eaters among infants and toddlers and their caregivers’ decisions about offering a new food. Journal of the American Dietetic Association, 104(1), S57-S64. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jada.2003.10.024
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